The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.
Jesus gave His life so that we can live through Him. He does not take life, He gives it. He doesn't kill and destroy, He saves and blesses. This seems simple enough to grasp, but consider the opposite. Anything that does not line up with God's word is from our enemy, the thief. And while some things seem good or compassionate, the reality is if what we are doing does not line up with God's word, then our enemy will use this to exploit us.
Stick close to Jesus, spend time in His word. In this way, we will clearly hear His voice.
Pastor Rod Harris